International Pronouns Day is celebrated on the third Wednesday in October. This annual event seeks to make respecting, sharing, and educating about personal pronouns commonplace. Referring to people by the pronouns they determine for themselves is basic to human dignity. Being referred to by the wrong pronouns particularly affects trans and gender nonconforming people.

Trans and gender nonconforming people, especially those whose gender is or is perceived to be outside of the man/woman binary, are sometimes harassed and treated with hostility. Intersecting forms of oppression deeply impact trans communities. Together, we can transform society to acknowledge and celebrate people’s multiple, intersecting identities. These actions are part of the larger work of creating and sustaining inclusive and supportive communities for everyone. This is the point of International Pronoun Day.

Here's a quick guide to using pronouns that might help.

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Please note, if you are inquiring about someone's pronouns, please do not say, "What are your 'preferred' pronouns". The pronouns they use are not preferences, they are their pronouns. Also, if you misgender someone and they correct you, just say thank you. I'm sorry leads to having them have to forgive you or minimize your mistake. Thank you says you understand it's not ok and appreciate knowing.

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